New Year, New Word

I’ve noticed a trend lately, that instead of (or in addition to) New Year’s resolutions, people are choosing words to guide the New Year.

My friend Roxane, at Peace Garden Mama, has done this. Crystal at Money Saving Mom chose two words: margin and discipline.

As a wordsmith (self-proclaimed and employed as such), I’m attracted to this idea, but have struggled to come up with a precise word for 2013.

The word that keeps coming to mind is “transition,” as this will be a year of transition for my family. Eve will go to Kindergarten. Owen will likely start attending daycare of some sort. My work schedule/arrangement will likely change.

But “transition” is a noun. It’s a thing, a fact. What I need is a verb, adjective or adverb, to describe how I want this year to go. To guide my actions in a time of transition.

I did a visual thesaurus search for the word “transition.” It led me to “change,” which eventually led me to “sprout” and “burgeon.” I like this idea, that our family is sprouting, burgeoning forth. Growing. Changing. Evolving.

So I ask you for advice … what verb/adjective/adverb am I searching for? What’s your word for 2013?

Happy New Day!

When you’re 2, the concept of time is grasped pretty basically. Either things already happened, or they’re going to happen. So whenever Eve refers to something that already happened, she says “last night.” And if it has yet to happen, she says “today” or “tomorrow.”

“I went to Papa’s farm last night!” she tells me. “No, that was last week,” I explain. “But yes, I remember when you went to Papa’s farm and went sledding.”

“It’s my birthday today!” she informs me. “No, your birthday is in March,” I say, realizing that provides her no context. “But yes, it will be your birthday, after Baby Cousin’s (at the end of January).”

So imagine my conundrum in trying to explain New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day, the changing of 2010 to 2011. As we left her daycare on Thursday, I told Eve the next time she’d be at Trisha’s house, it would be a new year.  Then today, when I told her it was a new year, she said, “I go to Trisha’s now!” Ummm, sort of …

I decided to just focus on the greeting. I told her whenever she saw someone today, to say “Happy New Year!” She practiced in perfectly. But after a couple hours, it had turned into “Happy New Day!” I didn’t correct her.

What a wonderful way to greet one another, and how reflective of the perpetual optimism that exists within toddlers. Every day is new and wonderful, filled with opportunities to learn, play and grow.

I think I found my New Year’s resolution, from the mouth of babes. To live every day of 2011 as a “happy new day.”