Plastic Fast, Week Two: In over my head

It was not a good week in the land of cash.

A convergence of expenses — mainly an empty gas tank and dog dish and an impulsive grocery store outing  — left me holding the bag with not enough bills. So I wrote a check to cover my assets.

In the second week of giving up all my plastic, I spent $28 over my self-imposed $140 cash allowance.

While I didn’t use my plastic (technically a success that way), I discovered operating on cash doesn’t work well without some sort of structure, like an envelope system. I also slacked on writing down my outlays, so had to spend more time figuring out my weekly totals.

I filled up my car’s gas tank on Tuesday, earning a 3-cent-per-gallon discount by using cash. I only had one squirmy kid with me and there was no line in the convenience store, so it wasn’t as big of a headache as I’d feared.

On Wednesday, I needed to get more prescription food for our pooch. That cost $27.08. Also, I paid $13.50 in cash to the drop-in daycare, where Owen played while I visited the dentist (a check-up paid for by check).

I planned to spend about $45 when I went to the grocery store Thursday. I knew I was limited in cash, but shopped like I wasn’t. I was lured by excellent prices on produce, pop and Pop-tarts, and went off-list not considering the consequences. As I watched the total climb at the register, I quickly realized I was in over my head. My total was $60.86, more than I had in my wallet. I was too embarrassed and stubborn to put anything back, so I wrote a check.

A neighbor girl helped me out with the kids after school, so I needed to pay her. I’d promised Eve lunch at McDonald’s on Friday. And my favorite thrift store had a 49-cent sale Saturday, where I spent $3.14. That put my week’s total at $168.19 (not to mention my husband’s supermarket trip for Super Bowl snacks).

I suppose I could justify that I was $44 under budget in Week One, but my goal was to spend less than the $140 target each week. So this week, I’m penalizing myself for my extravagence. I’ll have only $112 to work with. I already spent $10.49 at the store this morning, a desperate run for toilet paper and coffee creamer.

Time to pinch my pennies.

Save 50 cents here and there to boost your family’s budget

It never failed. Every time I stopped to fill up my car with gas, I remembered the coupon for 4 cents off per gallon was still hanging on my refrigerator. Heck of a lot of good it did me there.

So I’ve started to keep those gas coupons, whether from the grocery store or a coupon mailer, in my car. That way they’ll be with me when I need them.

It may not seem like a big deal to save 50 cents on a tank of gas, but if you fill up weekly, that’s about $25 a year.

In my family, $25 is an extra contribution to one of the kids’ college savings accounts.

Now think if you could make five or 10 or 20 small changes that would save 50 cents a week. Suddenly you’ve got hundreds of extra dollars in the bank, provided you capitalize on them.

That is, transfer that extra money into a savings account to make sure it isn’t frittered away elsewhere.

It’s pretty painless to save 50 cents or more a week on groceries, entertainment and utilities. Find a 50-cent grocery coupon for something you were going to buy anyway, or switch to a generic brand. Trade a vending machine can of soda for a glass of water. Borrow books or movies from friends or the library. Turn the thermostat down a degree or two.

Go meatless for one or more meals per week. Considering most cuts of meat cost around $3 per pound, compared to $1 or less for protein-rich beans, this move saves quite a bit of money, not to mention it’s better for your health.

One small change my family made was to switch our city-issued garbage can from the medium to the small size, a savings of $3 per month, or $36 a year.

We never seemed to fill up the 64-gallon cart, largely because we take advantage of free curbside recycling.

Also, I think when you’re focused on saving money, you produce less waste. You don’t buy as much stuff, so there’s not as much packaging to throw away. Cooking at home results in a lot less garbage than takeout or delivery food containers.

Once you’ve made easy changes to save 50 cents or a dollar a week in several areas, think bigger.

How much could you save by making your own coffee or brown-bagging your lunch just one or two extra days each week? If it doesn’t seem like a lot, take that amount times 52, to think in terms of what you could save in the course of a year.

Also, tally small inflows of cash, such as the extra dollars you get recycling cans or selling things you don’t use. Collect your spare change and add it to the savings stash.

Every time you pass up on a tempting purchase for savings sake, whether it’s a candy bar or a new pair of leather boots, put that money aside, too.

Finding the smallest ways to trim your expenses is a good way to start saving, even if it’s just 50 cents at a time.

Sherri Richards is a thrifty mom of two. She blogs at www.topmom.areavoices.com.

Money-Savin’ Mama: Pay yourself first

If you don’t tell your dollars where to go, they’ll disappear. My husband and I found this to be true long before I read it in a Dave Ramsey book. It’s the reason that when you plan to save whatever’s left at the end of the month, there’s never anything left.

For years now, we’ve “paid ourselves first,” and amazingly, there always seems to be enough to go around. Today’s online banking features make it easier than ever. Every month, automatic transfers send money into our individual retirement accounts, money market and future car fund, before we even miss it.

But where should you tell those dollars to go first? Sometimes all of the things you need to save for seems like a never-ending list: retirement, college for the kids, an emergency fund, that trip to Italy or the down payment for a house.

It’s a matter of prioritizing your savings goals.

Last October, I wrote an article for The Forum about Ramsey’s Financial Peace University course, which was being offered at churches in the community. It was the first time I’d heard about his Seven Baby Steps, which lay out his top priorities for your finances.

I realized we were following them closely, but not exactly. We’d saved up an emergency fund (steps 1 and 3), were contributing 15 percent to our retirement (step 4), putting some in Eve’s college savings account (step 5) and making additional principal payments on our home (step 6).

But out of line with the steps was Craig’s lingering student loan payment. Ramsey would want us to get rid of that in step 2, before putting money toward retirement, college savings or paying off the house. My accountant husband, thinking in terms of interest rates and tax deductions, didn’t agree.

The student loan has since been paid off, and we’re still chipping away at our savings goals, even with a new baby and me working fewer hours.

So how should you save your dollars? Different financial writers offer different advice, but all have common themes.

First and foremost, they say you should have an emergency fund that could cover several months’ expenses. Some say three months; some say 12. Keep this money safe. We stash ours in a money market account at the same bank as our checking account.

It’s often advised to pay off your high-interest debt by “snowballing” your payments – putting the same amount toward the debt each month even as your balances decrease.

Then, put that money toward your retirement – ideally 10 or 15 percent of your income or more – before your kids’ college savings. Worst-case scenario, they can take out student loans. There are no loans for retirement.

Challenge yourself to max out a Roth IRA, contributing $5,000, next year. If that sounds impossible, consider this: Trimming $96 a week in wasteful spending – perhaps on eating out or fancy coffee or your own personal vice – and putting it into an IRA could earn you $49,678.65 in interest over 30 years, assuming an 8 percent return on your investment. Not retiring for 40 years? That $5,000 will grow to $121,366.93.

Paying yourself first can really pay off.

Calculations performed at www.powerpay.org. Sherri Richards is a thrifty mom of two. She blogs at www.topmom.areavoices.com.

When the dollars go to the dog

Before my husband, Craig, and I got a puppy six years ago, we had the conversation: How much would we be willing to spend to save the dog’s life?

We’d watched as Craig’s mom and her husband shelled out quite a bit on chemotherapy for their dog Lady. (They then started calling her Laptop, because that’s how the money was going to be spent.) Lady/Laptop, an older, large-breed dog, died about a year later.

I thought $1,000 was a fair figure. Craig was less generous, throwing out $500. We both agreed there was a financial limit. (And whether it’s right or wrong, we both agreed the limit was higher for our new cockapoo, Willow, than for our older, adopted cat.)

Fast-forward to last year, when a routine vet visit showed an unexpected problem in our puppy: Bladder stones. The solution? Surgery, at a price tag of about $1,400.

This tested our limit commitment. I couldn’t in good conscience put down a dog because she had crystals in her bladder. She was (and still is) a young dog for her breed, otherwise in good health. It wasn’t a life-threatening condition, but one that would cause Willow pain, and would inconvenience us with her urinary incontinence.

I decided to call around to a few different veterinary clinics to get quotes. (You do this when getting your car fixed, why not your animal?) Thankfully, another clinic in town could do the surgery for around $800, keeping our self-imposed limit in tact.

Now, fast-forward a little further to today. We’ve spent hundreds upon hundreds more on that mutt, for special foods, antibiotics, ultrasounds, urinalyses, etc. The stones just keep coming back. We’re planning another operation, frustrated to see our budget blown by the family beast but not willing to give her up, or give up on her.

It’s puppy love, I guess. What can you do?

Our Willow

Money Savin’ Mama has some ideas that may help you save money on your pets, even if our dollars keep getting thrown to the dog.

1) Before you get an animal, consider the true cost. It’s not just the adoption fee or the amount you pay the breeder. Factor in yearly food, grooming and vet bills. Some breeds are more prone to specific health problems. Could you afford a special needs pet? Check out the slideshow that accompanies this Kiplinger article on the cost of pets.

2) Set aside doggie dollars every month. Figure out how much you expect to spent on the pet per year, divide by 12, and deposit that much every month into a savings account. We’ve been earmarking money for the pets, which has kept us from going into debt on their account.

3) Research pet insurance. You might decide it’s a worthwhile expense for your family. MSN Money financial writer Liz Weston tackled the issue in this column.

4) Call around. Like I found, some veterinary clinics are more affordable than others. When facing this latest surgery, I asked our vet if it was possible to have veterinary students perform the surgery for a discount. She said that is a possibility in larger cities, like Minneapolis or Denver. Fargo-Moorhead has a low-cost spay/neuter organization, PAAWS.

5) Know your options. We’ll be declining the optional blood work and laser procedure with Willow’s upcoming surgery. Ask if an expense is necessary. If it’s optional, weigh the cost versus the benefit.

Money management for toddlers

Yesterday, my 2-year-old daughter grabbed the checkbook cover that holds her savings account ledger and deposit/withdrawal slips from the kitchen table. I’d been updating it with her latest interest payment (16 cents, woo hoo!) and a deposit of some Christmas cash.

“What’s this?” Eve asked.

“It’s your checkbook,” I told her. She liked that answer.

I took the opportunity to instill an early money lesson. “It’s an account where you save money,” I explained. ”So then one day, if you want to buy something really special, you’ll have money to do that. Or maybe you want to keep saving it. Or maybe you want to give it to someone who really needs it.”

“I’m going to give money to you,” she said, pointing to me, “and to you,” pointing to her Papa, who was helping with a flooring project in our kitchen.

Atta kid. I’m going to remind her of that in about 14 years.

My husband and I have tried to be intentional with money lessons with Eve. She has a piggy bank, where I enthusiastically encourage her to drop the spare coins she finds from time to time. I’ve let her drop the envelope into the collection plate at church. We’ve looked at the different kinds of coins (she recognizes pennies and quarters) and I’ve tried to teach her about their monetary values.

But I don’t think that part has sunk in, largely because we haven’t ventured into one crucial side of money management – spending.

Eve knows money is for saving. I don’t think she knows it’s for spending. And I’m hesitant to go there. Saving is the difficult part. Spending is easy. Why should I encourage it? But if I don’t teach her to spend responsibly, who will? Not TV, certainly. Not our “stuff”-obsessed culture.

Obviously she’s with me when I buy groceries and toiletries and clothing, but I use plastic a lot. Like, all the time, just for convenience. I remember reading a column from a financial adviser about how some kids aren’t learning about money for this reason. When you pay cash, a kid observes you handing over money for things. When you pay with a credit or debit card, that card goes back in your wallet. You haven’t given up anything, in their eyes. They don’t grasp the exchange of currency.

Maybe it’s time to break open the bank and bring some of those quarters and pennies to the dollar store, let her pick out a toy, and hand over the coins. To show her the value of money.

That sort of lesson may be more important than knowing a quarter is worth 25 cents. 

What lessons are you teaching your child about money? How have you tried to instill financial smarts with your kids?